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Einer der Vorträge, an dem ich’s bereue, dass ich weder Kamera noch MP3-Player auf Aufnahme gestellt habe:

When Animus met Anima -- The Deep Dynamics of Falling in Love

Verliebtsein -- dieses Thema wird als „gegeben“ hingenommen, darüber geredet wird bestenfalls hinter vorgehaltener Hand, am Familientisch wird es nur einseitig besprochen. Und wer „es nicht geschafft hat“; wer sich als Mann keine Fotze angeln konnte oder wer als Frau von keinem Typen angesprochen wurde, der wird als störrisch, seltsam, sozial abweichend und als Versager abgestempelt. Mit diesem Denkmodell habe ich bisher gelebt. Ja, ich bin so ein traumatisiertes Kind. Bei dem Thema hängen bei mir schwarze Regenbögen über dem Kopf, gespickt mit ewig rotierenden Fragezeichen. Ich bin anders. Warum? Was ist los? Wie funktioniert was? Eine Erklärung blieb bislang aus. Über die Funktionsweise des Verliebens und was wirklich dahinter steht, darüber weiss niemand so richtig Bescheid. In der Schule gibt es zwar sowas wie Aufklärung, doch eine wissenschaftliche, tiefgreifende Analyse über die Dynamiken des Verliebtseins fehlt gänzlich.

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“Aber das kann man doch gar nicht wissenschaftlich analysieren!“

Bullshit!

Juliana Estevez erklärt uns Anhand des psychologischen Denkmodells von C.G.Jung die Dynamik des Verliebtseins. Wieder einmal muss das Boom eingreifen, wenn es um die Klärung bislang ungeklärter Fragen geht. Dieser Vortrag lichtet sooo viele Schleier, so viele Unklarheiten und bis dato Mysterien werden gelüftet. Vorhang auf für:

Wenn Animus auf Anima trifft -- Die tiefen Dynamiken des Verliebens

In jede Beziehung sind mindestens 4 „Personen“ involviert: Die zwei Partner und ihr innerer Mann oder Animus, und die innere Frau oder Anima. Das gilt für heterosexuelle wie auch für homosexuelle Beziehungen. Doch zuerst von Anfang an:

Jung’s Modell des Bewusstseins ist unterteilt in das persönliche Bewusstsein und das kollektive Unterbewusstsein. Am Schnittpunkt der Beiden ist das persönliche Unterbewusstsein.

Das Selbstbewusstsein, das Ego, die Persona -- das ist das, „wie man sich gibt“, wie man nach aussen hin ausschaut.

Im kollektiven Unterbewusstsein sind die Archetypen verankert. Archetypen haben wir bereits am letzten Boom besprochen.

Im persönlichen Unterbewusstsein ist das Schatten-Selbst zu finden; der Teil von uns, den wir bislang lieber verdeckt gehalten haben; ein unterbewusster, nicht ausgelebter Teil. Komplexe sind mit den Archetypen aus dem kollektiven Unterbewusstsein verbunden. Und was finden wir noch dort? Animus und Anima!

Animus/Anima sind Archetypen. Angeborene Potentiale, die durch Erfahrung erfüllt werden möchten. Potentiale, die man selbst in sich trägt, aber noch nicht entwickelt hat.

Anima (Seele) -- sie ist der Vermittler zwischen der Persona und dem Seelenbild. Sie ist wild und fruchtbar. Sie regelt die Kapazität zu lieben, Empathie und die Beziehung auf der spirituellen Seite. Anima wird Intuition, Kreativität, Fantasie und Innenleben zugeordnet.

Bei Frauen ist die Anima typischerweise ausgeprägter als bei Männern. Wenn ich einen Mann frage, wie er sich fühlt, dann weiss er es meistens gar nicht. Wenn ich eine Frau frage, wie sie sich fühlt, dann kann sie in einem sehr hohen Detailierungsgrad bestimmen, wie sie sich warum so fühlt und wie das zustande kam, durch mehrere Kaskaden an Ereignissen und sehr fein differenziert.

Anima ist das Feminine, das Thema dieses Booms.

In Kontrast dazu steht Animus (Geist). Animus personifiziert Logik, Objektivität, Autonomie, mentale Kreativität, kritisches Denken, Macht. Die maskulinen Qualitäten sind: Stärke, Wort, Tat, Bedeutung.

Wenn eine Frau in Diskussionen sehr emotional reagiert, wenn sie sich mit rationalen, logischen Argumenten nicht überzeugen lässt, dann ist ihr Animus nicht sehr ausgeprägt.

Es gilt, die Balance zu finden, Anima wie Animus gleichermassen zu beachten -- unabhängig davon, ob man ein Mann oder eine Frau ist.

Animus und Anima, feminine und maskuline Energien haben nichts mit dem physischen Geschlecht zu tun! Sie sind gleichermassen in beiden Geschlechtern vorhanden, ganz egal auch welcher sexuellen Orientierung.

Der Animus respektive die Anima ist gleichzeitig auch ein Ausdruck, ein Bild eines essenziellen Aspektes des Selbsts, der unterentwickelt ist, nach dem man unbewusst strebt und nach Erfüllung und Vervollständigung sucht. Umgangssprachlich „die bessere Hälfte“. Animus und Anima sind Ausdrucksweisen, die man im Moment gerade nicht ist.

Was passiert also, wenn wir uns verlieben?

Wir verlieben uns in unseren eigenen Animus / in unsere eigene Anima!

Wir verlieben uns in unser unterentwickeltes Potential, das nicht gelebt wurde, das sich gerne ausgedrückt sehen will.

„Oh, ich liebe diese Frau!“ -- was in Wirklichkeit hinter den Kulissen abläuft:
„Oh, ich liebe meine Anima!“

„Was für ein schöner Mann!“ -- hinter den Kulissen:
„Er sieht meinem Animus ähnlich!“

Wir alle tragen eine Animus und eine Anima; ein Bild einer Traumfrau und eines Traummannes in uns. Es ist unser eigenes, unerfülltes Potential. Wir verlieben uns in uns selbst.

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Damit es jetzt richtig komplex wird und die ganzen Beziehungsdramen anfeuert, funktionieren Beziehungen typischerweise so:

Eine Beziehung findet zwischen dem Ego, dem eigenen Animus und dem wirklichen Menschen statt.

„Da gibt es Leute, die Leben 40 Jahre lang zusammen, und plötzlich beginnen sie zu sehen, wer sie wirklich sind. Alles vorher waren Projektionen des eigenen Animus.“

Was sind nun die wahren Hintergründe über Beziehungen, über das „sich verlieben“? Die Antwort ist wieder mal denkbar einfach: Psychologische und spirituelle Entwicklung.

Der Sinn von Beziehungen ist spirituelle Entwicklung.

Na sowas! Da hätte ich ja auch von selber draufkommen können! Richtig. Aber ich hätte nicht verstanden, warum. Nach diesem Vortrag weiss ich jetzt, was alles dahintersteht.

Zeit für Fragen und Antworten -- wer will das Mikrofon?

„Danke für den Vortrag. Kannst du mir noch etwas erklären“, fragt ein Mädchen, „warum verliebe ich mich sehr schnell in sehr viele Menschen?“ Die Menge lässt sogleich ein mitfühlendes oooh jööö von sich geben.

„Nun, das ist einfach. Du hast viele Potentiale, die du ausleben und erkunden möchtest. Viele Seiten und Arten, die dir gefallen, die du sein möchtest. Nachdem zwei Partner eine Weile zusammen waren, können sie auch wieder ihr Interesse füreinander verlieren -- sie wachsen aus sich raus, entwickeln sich weiter, suchen sich einen nächsten Partner, der ihr nächstes Potential auszufüllen vermag, der sie in ihrem nächsten Entwicklungsschritt unterstützt. Und ja, es ist richtig -- je mehr man sich innerlich entwickelt hat, desto weniger tendiert man dazu, sich zu verlieben. Man verliebt sich immer seltener.

OH MY GOD, bittewasbitte? Der schwarze Regenbogen über meinem Kopf beginnt zu funkeln, er giesst einen silbernen Glitzerstrahl über meinem Kopf aus -- ein Strahl aus Heilung, Erkenntnis, Erleichterung, Klarheit und Stärke. Wait -- können wir das nochmal wiederholen? „…je mehr man sich innerlich entwickelt hat, desto weniger tendiert man dazu, sich zu verlieben. Man verliebt sich immer seltener.“ -- aber ja doch! Das muss es sein! Nach all diesen Erklärungen und Erläuterungen wage ich diesen Satz mir selber zu sagen, ohne dabei Arrogant zu wirken. Ich kenne jetzt die Hintergründe. Und wenn ihr jetzt noch an die Wiedergeburt und sowas wie Seelenentwicklung glaubt, dann werdet ihr das erkennen, was ich gerade erkannt habe.

Es tut so gut! Danke lieber Vortrag, du bist toll!

Jetzt gehe ich mit einer anderen Sichtweise durch die Welt. Das Boom ist eben doch ein Transformational Festival, es hat die Macht, zu verändern, zu heilen, zu stärken. Ich sehe Päärchen, wie sie sich entwickeln. Animus und Anima. Dass die Wahrheit so simpel sein kann…

Weiter: Boom 2014: MDMA

Update 6. Februar 2015: Das Video vom Vortrag ist verfügbar:

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